Soul in the Shadows
Friday, June 08, 2007
「 The Soul Has Spoken. 9:31 AM 」
Insecurities: what are they?

Insecurities is an underestimation of oneself,such that one is afraid of losing something very much. By constant thoughts of losing someone, one tends to have tighter reins on people around him/her. This may lead to paranoia, where what he/she do will cause irritation in other people. The root cause of insecurites stem from the variations in all life forms,including humans. By each person having different abilities and disabilities, one may fear losing others,people such as friends or spouses due to their disabilities. Hence, such people tend to do things which may be very constricting to the people they are afraid to lose. The latter will find the former irritating,and will move away from the former. The former,seeing that the latter is further away,come even closer to the latter,which will cause the latter more irritation. Hence in the end, the latter and the former will inevitably split.

How to cure/prevent the problem of insecurity? One rule of thumb: security is actually an ability on the part of everyone. Ask around, and you will find that many people,especially girls,prefer to hang out with people who are secure. I remember many girls i know telling me that they like guys who are secure. Hence, the problem of insecurity can be cured directly by not forcibly shoving urself into the middle of ur friends/spouse,and allow ur inner peace to take over u,such tat u will not feel the fear of losing. Another way to combat insecurities is by making use of ur abilities. Know them,know how to use them appropriately. A warning would be to get carried away,which would be termed as,Arrogance. By knowing ur abilites, one can actually feel secure to know that they are not completely useless.

In conclusion, whenever one feels insecure,look back and ask urself,what is the root of it?Will keeping this feeling actually be beneficial? Approriate answers AND actions/inactions will help to prevent insecurities from reaching reality.



Whatever material from this passage comes from what i feel, and has no scientific prove or credibility. Its purpose is only for entertainment for readers,who can choose to believe or disbelieve what i say.

This passage stems from the talk wif rosel there,who had complains on my tagboard that her fone bill would be very high due to the talks on sms,and claims she is not complaining. Ironical. Thanks though for keeping me company when my internet is down:P